Relationships can be complicated. They are also a critical ingredient in our quality of life. My deep appreciation for the intricacy involved in healthy connections is what draws me to work with people on their relationships. I love working with couples. One of my favorite parts of relationship work is helping to identify and redesign outdated interaction patterns, so you have relationships that reflect who you are today!
You've probably read a lot about how counseling can be helpful. My clients seem to do their research. I start by getting to know you, I might have you answer a questionnaire and you guessed it, I'm interested in your goals. We'll collaborate on a plan, so that you can hit those goals according to YOUR timeframe, not mine.
If you or your partner are considering a split, you are in a tough spot. This is known as a "mixed agenda".
Discernment Counseling is a new way of helping couples when one person wants to stay together ("leaning in") and the other person is “leaning out” of the relationship. Discernment counseling is brief, usually 2-5 sessions, with the goal of choosing one of 3 paths.
In Discernment counseling, you are working to see if the issues in your relationship are solvable, not to solve them. You will gain clarity and confidence about a direction, based on a deeper understanding of YOU in your relationship and its possibilities for the future.
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